Introduction: Manners mean the external behavior of man with others. They are the essential qualifications of a gentleman.
Qualities of a well-mannered man: A well-mannered man is polite and courteous. He respects the views and opinions of others even though they differ from his own. He never behaves with others harshly. He does not presume himself to be better or wiser than his companions.
Its value: All hate an ill-bred man. His society does not admit him. This happens because he lacks good manners. One needs to pay only a single penny to form good manners. Good manners win love and respect. According to Disraeli, the propriety of good manners and consideration for others are the two characteristics of a real gentleman. Again, in Lord Chesterfield’s days, the best thing a man can do is perform a good action; the next best thing is to do a civic one.
Influence: Good manners teach us to show respect to our superiors and love and affection to those who are equal or inferior 30 us.
An important part of education: Man’s schooling needs to improve if he doesn’t learn great habits. Again, good manners cost us nothing; they are often the result of good sense and good nature.
Where and when to learn manners: Manners should be learned in childhood at home. Childhood is the one when good manners can be taught.
Defects of an ill-mannered man: On the other hand, an ill-mannered man is rude and rough. He has no consideration for the feelings of others. An ill-mannered man makes himself disagreeable.
Manners differ from country: What is considered good manners in Bangladesh may not be considered such elsewhere. For example, shaking hands with others is a courtesy in Western countries.
Conclusion: Good manners win love and respect for us. It wears away opposition and paves the way to success.
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